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Why Do People Hate Against Others?

In this post I want to focus on why people seem to pick on others and think it’s ok to do it. As with all my blog postings this hasn’t really been planned out. A friend recently had some trouble with people who decided to ‘talk behind her back’ and laugh. This prompted me to email her about why I think people do what they do which will be the basis of this blog post.

I always used to think hate was a bad thing. It can be, but small outbursts are actualy good for you, if you let them. It’s far too easy to take what they say personaly and have it pull you down but if you think about it from a point of view that I am going to explain then you will see it’s not good at all and you should ‘almost’ be somewhat happy about it.

When somebody says something positive towards you, why are they saying it? Because you have made an impact on their life and they feel they really need to say something to let you know how good you are or how you make them feel. When somebody makes a negative comment towards you, why are they saying it? Because something you’ve done has affected them. Yes, that’s right, something you’ve done has caused them to notice you. If it’s within a certain group at school or even on the street as you pass by, you’ve got the attention. If it is on the street you can say that your mere presence has attracted their attention and make them want to talk about you, compared to whatever they were talking about to begin with. You are, at that moment, more important to their lives than you would think. They may not be thinking about you in a good way but if you think about it, they’ve taken valuable seconds out of their lives, used a few breaths and spared some thoughts… just for you! If they seriously didn’t care they wouldn’t say anything and ignore you completely wouldn’t they? But you’ve had such an impact on them and their lives that they have been forced to let it out.

It may not make you feel any better in the moment because you can become stressed and forget to think positive when you come under fire from someone else but hopefuly thinking about this will prevent any lasting effects.

A slight divergence on this idea is that why do people act agressive or attack other people? Because they are afraid of it. Why would you want to destroy something? Because it’s better than you and getting rid of it is the only way you will feel ‘powerful’ or ’still on top’. Name calling is a step or two down from physical agressiveness and so it is safe to say that any sort of this behaviour from other people makes them jelous of you.

Taking the agressive side of people, I may make into a further post on this same subject if I can. I would like to know your thoughts on what I have discussed as well as any experience you would like to share.

Thanks for reading,
~ Deamonic Angel

Thoughts Podcast?

Hi all,

I’ve seen that I haven’t really written many blog posts recently. Today I was thinking that I talk quite a lot (sometimes to myself) about things randomly, and I wondered if I should just talk these things out to a recorder and post them up on my site. I doubt it will be formal and there will be a lot of gaps and bits in where I’m thinking but it should be an easy mental note to myself so that I can use the thoughts I generate there to write better posts in the future based on topics I have discussed.

I also thought about making these exclusive for members of my site so they can see the inner workings of my mind and have a preview of what is to come. Members could also post replies and more thoughts in the comments to further develop my thoughts before I post them as a final blog post for the world to read.

This is just a thought I had and would like to know more about what you think before I go ahead with it or not. I look forward to your thoughts on this.

Thanks for reading,
~ Deamonic Angel

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